clients and those who merely want to gawk, and other than a monthly fee - between 30 and 60 - that escorts pay to post their ads, m doesnt levy any other charges. So I said okay, why not. Sure, there are public spaces where it can be possible to meet a potential match, but even the gay clubs of today are filled with women who dont want to be hit on by straight men, and guys who. P eople think you're just this f-king hooker, someone who's money-hungry, dirty and gross. Its free to sign up, build your profile, upload pictures, browse members and receive messages, however in order to send messages you are required to upgrade to a paid membership with rates almost identical to Thai Friendly (see above). For now, Lewis, whose day job is social media director at m, says hes content with enacting change in his own little way. His passion for silks and skirts brought him to New York City in 2011 in hot pursuit of a career in fashion design. In addition, it allows users to check out which queer-focused events are going on in their area during the week and which Scruff users in your area have rsvpd. Then you have to make awkward small talk to see if youll even have common interests to talk about once you meet up; and after all that there is still the coordinating of the first date. Then, early last year, Banks put together his first profile for m, the unabashedly nsfw ad-listing website for male escorts. The premise of the site is experimental and open-minded TAT stands for Try A Transgender. The biggest online dating site in Thailand, Thai Cupid has close to one million active members and among them are thousands of Gay Thai Men online at any given time. There are, for instance, escorts in tiny nowheresville, others who identify as gay for pay, and some who are older than one might expect. Trans daters can be easily overlooked by the general dating populace. Leo Forte, who served in the military before getting into porn and escorting, said he waffled for years before deciding to pursue sex work. Lewis, who attended Sarah Lawrence College before pursuing a career in ballet, says he never expected to become a sex worker. Its members come from all across the globe, and its available in most major languages. His first escorting experience wasnt horrible, he said, and it kind of just went from there.